Thursday, June 24, 2010

Poverty.

The obvious fact is that India is very diverse in economic level.  I have made the mistake in the past of portraying just the extreme poverty of the country.  There is extreme poverty.  The poverty screams out on the streets.  It manifests itself in so many vivid ways.   But…India also has extreme wealth and everything in between.  We believe that wherever we live we are to love and serve the poor.   Here, we just have the luxury, convenience, or challenge (however you want to see it) of being faced with poverty more directly.  We don’t have to search for opportunities to meet the needs of the poor.  The opportunities come knocking at our door (literally).   They come begging at our air conditioned car window.  They sit on our couches.  They play on our playground.  They are our friends.  They are our co-workers.  They are our neighbors.  So the question for us is not how can we get involved in a community of those less privileged then ourselves and serve.  This is done.  


The question that we are faced with everyday is how do we discern how to help?  How do we give when the need is so wide spread, so chronic, and so personal? I wish the answer to this was  an easy answer.  Just give the amount asked for, the amount needed for the school fees, the building project, the hospital bill and be finished!  Their needs are met.  The case is closed, but does a large sum of money from a rich foreigner to meet an immediate need solve the problem or make it worse, make it even more perpetual.  How do we discern what the true depth of the problem is?  We are still new here.  We are learning the culture.  We will never be Indian.  We will never fully understand.  How can we meet immediate needs of those hurting, poor and less fortunate while helping to aid in lasting change.  This is something that we discuss and ponder on a daily basis. 




                                                   

Monday, June 21, 2010

survived another project trip.

2 weeks without Graham.
3 days of non-stop, pre-monsoon, rain.
1 new, Himalayan sheepdog.
1 fussy, non sleeping, teething 11 month old.
No eMi house helper.
Lots of messes.
Coffee all day.
Record number of movie hours watched by the kids.






Graham is back after his project trip and all is well.  Life still is in disarray most of the time, but his presence makes us complete.



Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Last June 15th...

I like to look back.  Last June 15th Graham was gone on a project trip in India just as he is this June 15th.  We were still living in Omaha and enjoying the summer days.  I was waiting for our little baby to arrive and hoping that Graham would get back in time.  Hudson spent most days without his shirt on and as you can see by Priya pointing to her ear, she was just beginning to hear the birds.



Sunday, June 6, 2010

Pictures will you cooperate?













It finally worked!

Friday, June 4, 2010

the backcountry.



My brother Todd and great friend Joel came to visit for two weeks.  We were able to plan and execute a Himalayan trek near India's tallest mountain.  After having more than one child I thought that our backcountry backpacking days were over due to the difficulties of carrying kids on our backs and also needing our gear and food etc...  I thought that we would car camp until they were all old enough to hike and carry some gear, but I was wrong.  Because we live in India and have access to Himalayan people and animals for a very low cost we can trek with a family in the backcountry!  So with a lot of unknowns we went for it.  After a 10 hour mountain drive and a couple days at the nearest town negotiating for donkeys, guides and jeep transport we started our trek.  I think that the word "epic" is used way too much these days, but there is really no other way to describe it.  When talking about the trip Priya says..."Hudson ride donkey"  "Priya ride backpack"!  The challenges we have faced these first 5 months in India, getting adjusted and learning how to live all seemed to drift away.....okay i did have a bunch of pictures loaded, but was unsuccessful in getting them on here so i will be working on the pictures and post them ASAP.