What Priya did when she turned four...
She woke up early and came into our room asking, “is it my birthday?" Peaking at the array of pink balloons and banner hanging from our living room entry way. She spent the rest of her day spinning around our house as her dress circled her little body, pointing her toes, prancing, humming, and singing unknown songs in dreamy birthday spirit. She was excited to tell everyone whom we encountered that today was her birthday. We took her on a little mommy/daddy/Priya date. The three of us rode in the auto rickshaw hand in hand. The highlight of the drive was when the auto driver came to an abrupt halt in the middle of an empty road. Graham and I both looked at each other wondering what was the problem and we all looked out and saw a pack of little newborn puppies crossing the neighborhood street with their mother on the other side. He didn’t want to hit them and of course and Priya was ecstatic to be a part of the puppy rescue. We presented her with a requested hello kitty cake at a small party in the evening. These little innocent girl moments seem to be fleeting as she matures more each day in height, language and concerns so we grasp on to our little four year old daughter in a house full of boys. You manage to maintain your feminine side even when most imaginative play includes, “bad guys, shooting, wrestling and bombs." I still catch glimpses of you cuddling and nursing your baby doll named “Llama” and mothering your little “kitties”(brothers) if you can get them to comply and crawl around the floor with you meowing. You love pink. You sit and look at books for hours. Often when there is a quietness in the room I ask, “where is Priya?" I then find you on the floor quietly pouring over the pictures of a book. You love William and often snuggle up to him with an adoring and motherly voice responding to his coos and babbles. You charm us with your sweet spirit, your lovely face and stamina to overcome obstacles. You run, scream and laugh at the top of your lungs until your implants fall off and you put them right back on and continue. You deal with impairment not phased. May you continue to keep running, screaming and laughing even when set backs come. Here’s to another year with our beloved Priya.

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| Birthday cake success thanks to the help of my dear friend Dannah. Cake was in the fridge by 11PM rather than, like last year, 3AM the night before! |